You can use these nine oral sex tips with any partner — guaranteed, they'll be wowed. In theory , oral sex sounds like closing an envelope: spit, lick, repeat. And, while everyone gets a participation trophy for their efforts, there is such a thing as bad oral sex. Yes, we said it! While you're at it, check out these other sex tips from experts.

I know some women hate performing oral sex on a guy, and I get it—having someone's junk thrusting inside your mouth and ugh, the annoying head push! But to me, there's nothing more empowering and exciting than to have full control of over a penis—and by effect, the man attached to it. Not to mention, unlike a hand job or even penetrative sex , men can't replicate the sensation of a blow job on their own obviously. Your mouth is wet and warm, like a vagina or a lubed-up hand , but your lips and tongue are living, roving, irreplaceable works of art.

First step: Stop thinking of it as a job. Done correctly, oral sex can be satisfying for both of you — so long as you follow this sage advice. Everybody wins! It sounds intimidating, but the payoff is worth it.

Bodies are different. We all have our own unique odor. Everything from what we eat to the soap we use can affect it. A quick shower is usually sufficient to keep things fresh down there.